I broke down and decided to purchase an external SMTP solution... now I'm getting this error... I've tried Synchronous but it looks like it trying to send Asynchronous because there are multiple threads. The SMTP provider allows 5 open threads.
System.Web.HttpException: The message could not be sent to the SMTP server. The transport error code was 0x800ccc67. The server response was 421 4.3.2 Too many open connections. ---> System.Reflection.TargetInvocationException: Exception has been thrown by the target of an invocation. ---> System.Runtime.InteropServices.COMException (0x80040211): The message could not be sent to the SMTP server. The transport error code was 0x800ccc67. The server response was 421 4.3.2 Too many open connections. --- End of inner exception stack trace